The Problem Isn’t Your Anxiety
Anxiety is a persistent emotional state characterized by fear or nervousness about the future, even when there is no immediate threat. It’s a general sense of unease, even when things are objectively okay.
Anxiety is a persistent emotional state characterized by fear or nervousness about the future, even when there is no immediate threat. It’s a general sense of unease, even when things are objectively okay.
If you’ve ever tried to change a habit, you know how hard it can be. That’s because the more often you practice the habit, the more ingrained the habit becomes. The good news is that we can rewire our brains and make lasting changes.
Uncertainty often leads to anxiety because the brain tends to fill in the gaps with worst-case scenarios. This can create a constant state of worry as the brain prepares for every possible negative outcome.
Social comparison is a natural part of human behavior. Remember, your journey is unique, and your worth is not determined by how you measure up to others. Focus on your personal growth, set meaningful goals, celebrate successes, and use social comparison as inspiration, not validation.
I’m not suggesting you wear rose-colored glasses, pretending the tough stuff doesn’t exist, but I am suggesting building a habit of realistic optimism. Realistic optimism is a mindset that combines a positive outlook with a grounded understanding of reality. It involves maintaining hope and confidence while acknowledging and accepting the challenges and uncertainties of life. Rather than denying or minimizing difficulties, realistic optimists approach situations with resilience, flexibility, and a belief in their ability to navigate obstacles effectively.